Wanna Be a Magnet? Here's How ...

By Sarah

Do you want to attract a better life for yourself by being a magnet? As humans we are attracted to people that are happy, relaxed, confident and successful. Imagine if you walked into a class and one side of the room were all laughing and chatting and having a good time, and on the other side of the room people were sitting by themselves staring at their phones… most people would want to join the group that were having a good time, being social and making the most of life. Make your relationships, life goals and personal achievement stronger, by being a magnet.

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1

Embrace Opportunities

We are attracted to people that are embracing life and making the most of it. The trick to being a magnet is to say YES to new opportunities. If you are invited to a concert – GO! You are given the chance to study abroad – GO! People are drawn to others that are having an exciting life, and to be that person you need to say YES when the opportunity arises.

2

SMILE

We are drawn to people who smile a lot. Happy, smiling people are more approachable and are inviting to others. You will find it a lot easier to make friends and build stronger relationships if you smile. A smile and a shared joke can go a long way to making your life easier and more fun.

3

Dress up

A person who is dressed neatly and well groomed looks ready to face the day. Develop your own style and be confident in what you wear. Taking pride in your appearance shows others that you are proud of yourself and that you are worth making the effort for. A good haircut is also a worthy investment in looking and feeling good.

4

Work Hard

Hard work and success come hand in hand, and lets not forget that people are drawn to successful people. We wonder to ourselves how did they achieve such greatness? People that run marathons or have degrees don’t get them overnight. They put in time and effort and the result is something to be envied. We are impressed by their hard work like a moth to a flame.

5

Socialise

Socialising is the cornerstone of human nature – we thrive when we have healthy strong relationships. People who nurture their friendships and make time for their family are also investing in themselves. The better your relationships are, the easier life will seem because friends really do buy happiness. And the funny thing is the more you have, the easier it is to attract new ones.

Famous Quotes

Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it.

George Santayana
6

Have Confidence

A confident person can be mesmerising. People that are secure in themselves are simply attractive. Know your own mind and don’t be afraid to tell other people. Having confidence means standing apart from a crowd and getting noticed.

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Good Manners

I think good manners are really attractive and sometimes too quickly forgotten. A date that holds open the car door for you and is polite to your family is far more memorable and attractive then a better-looking rude guy. Good manners can be a very powerful tool when used correctly so remember to pick up your p’s and q’s.

Being a magnet is about attracting good things into your life – new friends, new opportunities and a new found confidence. So dress boldly, say how you really feel and stand out from the crowd. People can spend a lifetime trying to blend in with their peers, when their true strength lies in being themselves. So how are you going to be a magnet today?

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Where Thoughts and Opinions Converge

What if your the captain of the math team and everyone thinks your are the "Queen of the Nerds"

I'm gonna try to do #1 more often

If you don't get it 311 then probably not magnetic!!! Have you ever been in a situation eg work where everyone wants to talk to you and you don't know why...that is magnetic. Gave you walked down the street and people look at you...that is magnetic. Have you smiled at someone and they gave reciprocated...that is magnetic. Or just enjoying people's company...that is magnetic. Now if u haven't experienced any of this then you need to have more fun because like they say life is for the living. It is the very simple things in life that makes life magnetic

I don't see how any of these things will help you truly be magnetic... I mean, you won't seriously attract other magnetic objects...

Really just embrace yourself and show your confidence and then people will want to be like you

Yeah I think it’s all about being bold and being a leader. People will fall in line behind you once they see your bold and a good leader

Charisma is a mystery, what attracts one can repel another.

In point 7 about manners , you should have used "than" instead of "then" . not to be too critical , but isn't good grammar as sexy and magnetic as good manners ?!

That's not how you special socialize people

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