Women get called sluts for so many different reasons, and it honestly needs to stop. They're all so bogus. Who's the judge of what's slutty and what's not? Why does anyone need to judge another woman based on their own standards? A woman can enjoy sex, making out, and flirting without being called a slut. She can wear makeup, high heels, and short skirts, too, and none of those things make her a slut, either. Here are some of the most ridiculous women get called sluts – along with a shut down of each one.
Did you know that what you wear says something about your sex life, preferences, and desires? Yeah, me either. The same goes for short skirts, dresses, and shorts, anything that bares your skin, high heels, low-cut tops … so much of what women wear is up for judgment. In reality, of course, a woman can wear whatever she wants. A virgin can wear tight clothes. And no, it doesn't make her a tease. Miss me with that.
Are you pretty? Do you have a beautiful face? Long legs? Large breasts? Full lips? A nice body? Some people automatically think you're slutty, then – just because of the way you look. If you're attractive, you must be slutty. What else are attractive women good at, right? WRONG.
Some people – men and women – will judge you specifically because of these attributes. Large, full, high, or shapely breasts are an indication of slutty behavior. A nice derriere is, too. And for some people, the mere presence of a vagina makes a woman a slut. A part of our anatomy is the reason we're treated as less than and dirty.
It's bad enough for a woman to be sexually active – you'll get all sorts of hate for that, especially if you're not “ready for sex,” which to some people means “ready for a baby.” Being sexually active also makes you slutty, of course, because only sluts have sex outside of marriage, I guess. Talking about it is even worse. It must mean you're proud and you're bragging, right? Nah, not so much, but some people have very strange philosophies.
Maybe it's two. Maybe it's ten. Maybe it's thirty-five. Know what? It doesn't matter. It's nobody else's business, in the first place, and in the second, there is nothing wrong with having more than one partner. Nothing.
Mind you, “too much” is subjective. A full face of flawless contouring might make some people call a woman slutty. A simple slick of red lipstick stands out like a red flag for others. In any case, it's ridiculous. The amount of makeup you wear has absolutely nothing to do with your sex life.
I won't even pretend to understand this. There are so many things wrong with it – but then, there are all sorts of things wrong with all of this.
This is why it's so important that women stop slut-shaming each other. If women do it to other women, there's no way men will ever stop.
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