22 Totally Important Things for 20-Somethings to Remember when Life Hits Hard ...

1. It’s Okay Not to Love Every Part of You...

But remember you shouldn’t be too hard on yourself. The world won’t end if you eat that piece of cake. There's more to life than constantly worrying about how you look. Everyone has rolls when they sit down, so stop judging yours so harshly

2. Take Those Selfies

And post them to Instagram. Make memories and document them.

3. But Don't Forget about the Real Stuff Too

Like the fact that you need insurance...and to visit the doctor regularly, even if you feel just fine.

4. We All Hate It but Find Some Time to Exercise, You’ll Feel Better when You do

Don't forget to drink plenty of water, too.

5. Paying Your Bills Every Month is so Satisfying and is More Important than Going out All the Time

But still go out and have fun.

6. When Grown up Stuff Gets to You, Remember: Life Doesn’t Always Go as You Plan

The unexpected will happen, and when it does, I promise: the world won't end

7. You Don’t Have to Go through Life at the Same Pace as Everyone else

It’s okay if your friends took different paths. It doesn’t mean yours is wrong

8. Don’t Ever Apologize for Being You

You are worthy and you deserve respect

9. When Someone Calls You Beautiful, Believe Them

Because you are beautiful!

10. Boys Are Easier to Figure out than You Think

Don’t waste your time on those who don’t give you the attention you deserve. Kiss whoever you want. Hell kiss a boy and a girl, or even two. Love is worth taking a risk on every time

11. When You're Deep in Your Feelings, Write It out

A journal or even a blog are very therapeutic.

12. Ice Cream and Wine Are Pretty Good Problem Solvers

We mean GREAT problem solvers.

13. When All else Fails: Call Your Mom

Because despite whatever you may think, she’s always there

14. Make a Few Friends Who You Can Count on

Find people who encourage you to chase your dreams and find a hobby that makes you happy.

15. Travel to Places You Wouldn’t Always Pick to Visit

Don't be afraid to explore new things. Be brave enough to step outside of your comfort zone.

16. Tell People How You Feel, Even if It’s Terrifying

Don’t wait for someone else to save you, be able to save yourself.

17. Remember You Should Be a Priority

Anyone who sees you as an option or a backup plan needs to go. Let little things go, they're not worth holding on to. Also, learn how to love your own company.

18. Be Kind to Everyone You Meet

It’s the decent thing to do!

19. Put Your Phone down for a While

Real life is so much better.

20. Never Stop Learning

Ask questions about what you don't know and keep growing

21. Never Let Go of Your Dreams

Never forget that happiness is a choice. Bad days are inevitable, but remember that it’s just one bad day...it's not a bad life.

22. Some of the Best Days of Your Life Are Still to Come

You can handle anything that comes your way!

What's your favorite mantra for when life hits hard? Did you agree with these little things every 20 something should remember? Let us know in the comments!