7 Things You Truly Deserve Even When You Dont Believe It

By Holly • May 13, 2015 MD

Most women, including you, don't realize just how valuable they are. Even though the rest of the world can see how gorgeous you are, you aren't able to see your beauty when you look in the mirror. However, it's time to stop thinking so poorly of yourself. Here are a few essential things you deserve, even if you don't believe that you do:

  • Unconditional self-love
  • Meaningful success
  • Peace of mind

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1 You Deserve to Be Happy

It doesn't matter how many horrible things you've done in the past, you deserve to be happy. When you're upset, don't just mope around without trying to change your situation because you think you're entitled to the pain. You aren't. What you're entitled to is a life you're proud of, so do whatever makes you happiest without worrying what others think. If you need inspiration on this journey, focusing on loving your life is a great next step.

2 You Deserve to Be Loved

Don't break up with your partner because you think they can do better. Don't assume that your crush hates you because no one could ever love someone like you. Don't settle for dating a jerk because you don't think you can get anyone else. You're an amazing person, and you deserve to be loved by someone who respects you fully.

3 You Deserve to Be Successful

Apply for your dream job. Ask your boss for a promotion. Do whatever you can to reach your goals. If you believe that you're undeserving of success, it will lower your motivation and you'll never get where you want to be in life. The only way to become successful is to realize that you deserve to be successful. Setting clear career goals can help, and resources like LinkedIn Learning are fantastic for building confidence.

4 You Deserve to Be Pampered

Sure, it's a little pricey to go to the spa, but you deserve to be pampered. Get your nails painted, get a massage, or take a mud bath. You've had a tough week, so do whatever will relax you. You deserve to be pampered, so don't hesitate to do something that's meant for you and only you.

| Pampering Idea | Cost Level | Time Required | | :--- | :--- | :--- | | DIY Spa Night | Low | 1-2 Hours | | Professional Massage | High | 1 Hour | | A Quiet Read | Free | 30 Mins |

Embrace the vibrant colors and cozy vibes of the upcoming season with your loved ones. Planning for some memorable fall family photos is a unique way to capture the warmth and love amidst the breathtaking autumnal hues. Trust me, these keepsakes would be beyond beautiful.

5 You Deserve to Indulge in Food

It doesn't matter how big or small you are. Even if you're on a strict diet, you deserve the occasional snack. So stop feeling bad whenever you eat one too many cookies. It's not the end of the world. After all, you deserve to treat your stomach every once in a while.

6 You Deserve to Buy Material Items

You're not shallow for wanting the newest smartphone or for buying designer jeans that look similar to the kind you could get on sale elsewhere. Even if you're low on cash, you should occasionally splurge on something that will make you smile. The point of earning money is to spend it, after all. So make sure you don't put yourself on such a strict budget that you never buy yourself something special. If you want a quick pick-me-up, pampering yourself doesn't always have to break the bank.

7 You Deserve to Love Your Life

You can either consider life a rough challenge that will always let you down, or a gift that you're fortunate to have. It's all about how you look at the world. Of course, you deserve to live a life you love, which is why you need to do whatever it takes to make yourself happy. You might not be able to change the world, but you can change your world. Practices like mindful gratitude, recommended by Psychology Today, can significantly shift your perspective.

You're amazing, even if you don't realize it. In the spirit of positivity, what's one special treat that you're going to give yourself this week?

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  • Zahra'a_89

    2015-05-14T07:59:41.876Z

    I just had a haircut and I feel happy. Thank you for the amazing words you wrote. I feel so positive and energetic.
  • Najé

    2015-05-20T03:38:26.935Z

    What is money to begin with? Money is just paper in it's reality, used to control us like lab rats. You work and you spend to live a joyful life. Life is not all about money. Money does not buy happiness. Once you die, the money does not go with us. Enjoying our money leads to created memories and those memories last a lifetime. Saving up money is good but not when you focus so much on saving. The banks are not stable anyway so the money being saved is not really our own. We deserve a life we love and hey some people equate a loving life with nice financial security. To each his own. I enjoy the dialogue on here all of the time. 😊 Peace and love lovely ladies.
  • Monté

    2015-05-13T23:40:05.308Z

    That just motivated me even more to go after my dreams (: that article really had me thinking
  • Joanne

    2015-05-14T14:33:20.445Z

    All so very true
  • Viviene

    2015-05-15T13:24:18.152Z

    Love it ♥️❤️♥️
  • Miss

    2015-05-13T21:21:20.690Z

    Yes!! Amazing post! #KnowYourWorth
  • Megan

    2015-07-07T11:20:37.266Z

    Thank you to the author for saying such kind-hearted things! Especially number one.
  • Manisa

    2015-05-15T12:36:58.392Z

    Loved it. It's really inspiring!
  • Cassy

    2015-05-13T21:25:18.337Z

    Love it !
  • Chetna

    2015-05-13T22:40:44.317Z

    Thanku Apple. I totally agree with you!!
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