All Women's Talk

How to Deal with Haters without Completely Losing It ...

By Sheila

No matter who you are, you're bound to have a couple of haters lurking around, just waiting to attack you. The fact is...haters gonna hate, but it's up to you to decide whether you let them bring you down or rise above it all. So, how do you deal with your haters without having a meltdown?

1 Ignore Them

Ignore Them Sure it's harder than it sounds but nothing bugs haters more than someone not validating their feelings at all.

2 Take It as a Compliment

Take It as a Compliment You're awesome and some people can't stand that. Obviously you're doing something right to make your haters jealous. So stop taking it to heart and take it as a compliment instead.


7 Upcoming Sequels and Prequels Releasing in 2014 ...

7 Fabulous Quotes from Lauren Bacall ...

3 Kill Them with Kindness

Kill Them with Kindness Did someone leave you a nasty tweet? Respond with an unexpectedly nice tweet. Is someone being a real pain in the a** at work? Bring them cookies. If nothing else, you'll leave them really, really, confused.

4 Confront Them

Confront Them I usually avoid confrontation at all costs, but sometimes there's no escaping it. Have an honest talk with your hater and try to get to the root of what their problem is. It may or may not work but it's worth a shot.

5 Don't Interact with Them More than You Have to

Don't Interact with Them More than You Have to There's no need for that kind of negativity in your life.

6 "Delete" Them if You Can

"Delete" Them if You Can Delete and block them from your Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and other social media accounts, and most importantly delete them from your life!

7 Don't Waste Time Losing Your Mind over It

Don't Waste Time Losing Your Mind over It Seriously, it's not you, it's them. So don't waste your time and energy trying to figure out what you did wrong or how you can make it right. It's not worth it.

8 Shake It off

Shake It off Taylor says it best.

9 Be Even More Awesome!

Be Even More Awesome! Simple as that!
Have you ever had to deal with a hater? How did you go about it?

Please rate this article





Readers questions answered