No matter who you are, you're bound to have a couple of haters lurking around, just waiting to attack you. The fact is...haters gonna hate, but it's up to you to decide whether you let them bring you down or rise above it all. So, how do you deal with your haters without having a meltdown?
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1. Ignore Them
Sure it's harder than it sounds but nothing bugs haters more than someone not validating their feelings at all.
2. Take It as a Compliment
You're awesome and some people can't stand that. Obviously you're doing something right to make your haters jealous. So stop taking it to heart and take it as a compliment instead.
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3. Kill Them with Kindness
Did someone leave you a nasty tweet? Respond with an unexpectedly nice tweet. Is someone being a real pain in the a** at work? Bring them cookies. If nothing else, you'll leave them really, really, confused.
4. Confront Them
I usually avoid confrontation at all costs, but sometimes there's no escaping it. Have an honest talk with your hater and try to get to the root of what their problem is. It may or may not work but it's worth a shot.
5. Don't Interact with Them More than You Have to
There's no need for that kind of negativity in your life.
6. "Delete" Them if You Can
Delete and block them from your Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and other social media accounts, and most importantly delete them from your life!
7. Don't Waste Time Losing Your Mind over It
Seriously, it's not you, it's them. So don't waste your time and energy trying to figure out what you did wrong or how you can make it right. It's not worth it.
8. Shake It off
Taylor says it best.
9. Be Even More Awesome!
Simple as that!
Have you ever had to deal with a hater? How did you go about it?
Comments
Cyn: I agree...it's just sometimes hard to ignore
SleepyWillow692: It's easier to just pretend they don't exist that's what I do,gets right under their skin lol
Brittany: to be honest i really dont care about my haters i know they love me and all my haters are just crazy over me they just cant get over me
Rebecca: Soooo true! The worst thing is to get upset about it. Remember what they say about you says nothing about you, BUT it says everything about them!!
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