What Values Make You a Good Person?

By Neecey • Jun 27, 2015

With basic good manners falling by the wayside, celebrities with no apparent talent being worshipped as icons, lack of religion/faith, teenage pregnancies, high divorce rates and so many other social issues, how, in these days, do we know if we are a good person? What moral standards are there to act as our yardstick? Here are some values I believe make a good person:

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1. Valuing Human Life

A lack of value for human life leads to terrorism and genocide. Regimes around the world both modern and historical have cast off their respect and value for human life and have slaughtered hundreds and thousands on the back of it. Valuing human life also means that if your beloved dog was drowning and if a stranger was drowning, you would choose the human. If you value human life, it shouldn't be a tough choice, but it can be. For example, what if the person drowning was a stranger but a criminal? Or, what if your dog was a puppy and the person was ill with terminal cancer? What if the drowning person was a pregnant woman? What if your dog had saved you from drowning the year before? What if it was a child drowning? What if it was a Cuban drowning as he tries to enter the country illegally? The value comes in being able to make what you believe is the right choice.

2. Self-Respect

Having self-respect does not mean being selfish or vain. It means respecting yourself and the fact that you only have a few years on this earth. It means that you may have to go through bad times, degradation and great upset, but it means you do not purposefully put yourself in such positions just to please another person. You have more respect for yourself.

3. Valuing the Future of a Child

A person with this value will not take drugs during pregnancy or use foul language in front of a child. This sort of person will help a child understand the world and help a child understand that there are consequences he or she can easily avoid. A person with this value protects a child from mental, physical and emotional harm at all costs.

4. A Respect for the Earth

A good person doesn't throw his or her litter over a wall into a field, doesn't dump stuff in the ocean, doesn't create excessive waste and doesn't buy caged chickens or their eggs. A person that values the earth will also value everything in it. What makes you a good person is a respect and appreciation for the earth. This also means making sure you do not support companies that damage the earth, such as coffee growers that are not fully forest alliance certified.

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5. Valuing People's Right to a Contrary Opinion

This is a troublesome value because is it one that is pushed very heavily by liberal groups and liberal parties, yet they are very vicious (to the point of bullying) when it comes to people that oppose them. Republican groups do not bully people with contrary opinions, they just ignore them, which is not ideal either because it can invalidate people's opinions (be they right or wrong).

6. Do Unto Others as You Would Have Them do to You

Say what you want about the Bible, whoever wrote it certainly nailed this little value. The world would be a far better place if we only did to others what we would have them do to us. We may be a little less eager to steal, murder and rape if, by doing so, it made it possible for the same to happen back to us. Suffice it to say, if we all held this value, then we may ALL be a little happier.

7. A Respect for Womanhood

Do not fight the women at work, and do not talk behind their backs. Work together with them to help all the women at work get ahead. Do what men do and band together instead of complaining about each other and stabbing each other in the back. Also, reach out to women's groups in places where women are oppressed or experience inequality on a national scale, or to groups like Pussy Riot that are in prison in Russia because they fought for womanhood and female rights. Support the rights of Muslim women but respect their religion.

So now it's your turn to let me know what values you judge yourself against and what you would instill in your daughter(s). Are there core values you think are missing from my list?

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  • Hope4u2

    2015-06-27T15:55:06.532Z

    Last one on point if women would stick together we could be powerful .... I work with a lot of men and even when the don't get along they still stick together..
  • Snowlion

    2015-06-29T01:25:28.040Z

    @sharon. When someone starts a statement with "a good person believes", that is a value judgment. It implies that is someone doesn't believe the same thing, then they are not a good person. Also those who say that it's hypocritical to respect human life is a person is ok with abortion. Those two things, respecting human life, and abortion, are not mutually exclusive. Some women are sexually abused or living in abject poverty and cannot care for a baby, and do not have access to resources for adoption. I know these are loaded political and religious issues, like say homosexuality, but try putting yourself in their shoes before passing judgement. And isn't that in the bible somewhere? Judge not, lest ye be judged? Or is it, "let thou who is without sin cast the first stone"? Something like that.
  • sharon

    2015-06-27T18:17:19.433Z

    The Ten Commandments are indeed values we could all try to embrace. It can be hard sometimes but if we can, the world would be a much better place. I agree with you Neecey
  • Megan

    2015-06-27T19:17:28.559Z

    I think a good person is also NOT jealous or envious of other people's possessions or success. (S)he would NOT COVET another's material goods or spouse or significant other, stays FAITHFUL & is KIND & GENEROUS. Doesn't put you down, or make you defend your own worth.
  • Snowlion

    2015-06-29T01:31:10.509Z

    Typos: "if a person", and "if someone doesn't believe".
  • peony

    2015-06-27T18:24:42.354Z

    Yes human life is valuable. Some people don't think so and I have a few...shocking. I agree we only have a short time on earth let's make the most of it. Sometimes people just don't know what their worth is and if they don't,they will not value you and if you spot this give them a wide birth. Simples.
  • Snowlion

    2015-06-27T19:09:55.164Z

    Great article, Neecey. All good points to live by.
  • shannon

    2015-06-27T21:38:59.326Z

    @Snowlion I completely agree other people's misery is like a poisonous gas by all means avoid toxic negative people only have people in your life that add value to it ! Not take away from who you are...
  • Sal

    2015-06-28T11:25:57.583Z

    F*ck that! I'd save my cat over that bitchy girl at school any day. (I'd save her if she wasn't in competition with someone/thing better than her.
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