Why do we feel it's so necessary to apologize for so many things in life? I mean, sure, there are plenty of things that you should apologize for if and when you do them, but there's a long list of things we should all stop saying "sorry" for, starting right. NOW.
1. Not Being Interested
You don't owe anyone your time or attention. Don't apologize for not being interested.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
2. Your Sexual Orientation
Only minus the "sorry" part. Again, you don't owe anyone an explanation or an apology about your sexual orientation.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
3. Your Libido
Don't apologize for wanting sex, or not wanting sex, all the time, or none of the time. Ignore the slut-shamers and the haters who'll call you a prude. It's none of their damn business.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
4. Not Wanting Kids
Not every woman wants to be a mother, and there's nothing wrong with that.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
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5. Your Work/family Balance
When was the last time someone gave a dad a hard time about choosing to work outside the home, while at the same time, if he'd chosen to stay home, they'd belittle him for making THAT choice? Do what's best for you and your family and don't apologize for it.
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Societal norms often perpetuate a double-bind for women in the workforce, where they're scrutinized for their choices regarding career and home life, no matter what they decide. Remember, your situation is unique and the balance you strike is for you to determine. This isn't just about leaning in or opting out; it's about crafting a life that fulfills you and supports those you love. Dismiss the unsolicited criticisms, because only you know the rhythm that harmonizes your personal and professional worlds. Own your choices with confidence and grace.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
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6. Who You Love
As long as your sig other respects you and treats you well, don't apologize for who you love.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
7. Pampering Yourself
You need to take care of yourself in order to be able to handle the million things you're responsible for, so never say sorry for taking a little time for yoga... or other pampering and you-time.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
8. Your Makeup
Whyyy do people - men in particular - think they have any say in how much makeup we wear, if we wear it at all? No. Wear makeup if you want, or don't wear makeup, but never feel you have to apologize for it either way.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
9. What You're Wearing
If you like it, and it's comfortable, AND YOU LIKE IT, then who cares what you're wearing? Don't take any gaff from anyone about your personal style.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
10. Ditching the Fremenies
Oh, you had the nerve to drop a frenemy, and now someone's trying to guilt you for standing up for yourself? Nope. Don't apologize.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
11. Not Being Married
If you and your sig other are perfectly happy in your relationship without a wedding, that's fine! Don't apologize for NOT spending thousands of dollars on a wedding if it's just not your thing.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
12. Cursing like a Sailor
Sometimes the exact right word in a given situation is a curse word. Use them freely, if you wish, and don't apologize for it. I mean, you know, don't shock your poor maiden aunt, but don't apologize for using them otherwise.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
13. Your "guilty" Pleasures
Whatever you enjoy doing (or watching) in your downtime, don't apologize for it, and if anyone tries to make you feel bad for being-watching Keeping up with the Kardashians, unfriend them, because you don't need that kind of negativity in your life.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
14. Having Emotions
Look, you're a human. You have emotions. So never feel like you have to apologize for showing them... like, say, for weeping during those animal shelter commercials, okay?
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
15. Bottle Feeding
Not everyone can, or wants to, breast feed. You tried it. For whatever reason, it didn't work. You don't owe anyone an explanation or apology.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
16. Changing Your Mind
There's nothing wrong with changing your viewpoint or your mind over time. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for ditching a hobby, an outfit, or anything else.
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
17. Loving Social Media
There's nothing wrong with loving Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest, and so on. I mean, shame on you for wanting to stay in touch with friends and family, right?
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
18. RBF
If one more person tells me to smile, so help me... I'm not angry or sad or bored... I just have Resting Bitch Face, and I'm not sorry for it (and you shouldn't be either).
You know, everyone’s different. Some women might not apologize because they've been taught to be strong and assertive. Others might think it shows weakness. It's not about being rude; it’s just how they are or what they've learned. What about you? Do you think it's okay not to always apologize?
Oh, totally not! Having frenemies is normal in life. You can’t get along with everyone perfectly. It’s more about setting boundaries and focusing on who makes you feel good. No need to say sorry for those awkward relationships!
Heck no! Loving hard is a beautiful thing! It might be intense for some, sure, but it's also genuine and full of passion. Love big, love boldly—no apologies needed!
I think it depends on the situation, right? If you’ve hurt someone or made a mistake, then owning it can be good for everyone involved. But only apologize if you truly feel you should. What do you think, should apologies always be sincere?
Ah, the Suits drama! It was like a fan-favorite moment! Their relationship had all the ups and downs, but their wedding was just... *chef’s kiss*. Did you watch it? How did you feel when they finally tied the knot?
19. Saying No
Look, you don't owe anyone an explanation (or an apology) for there only being 24 hours a day and only so much of you to go around.
Comments
dorayilmaz: yessss
peony: I agree esp with 8! Men to control women you see so they say they dont like makeup or what we do to our hair or what we wear,i say ignore ignore ignore!!!!
Katie: I'll say "sorry" a lot, even when I didn't do anything wrong. It's more of a sorry "you're going through something unpleasant".
dorayilmaz: PREACH
TorriWyatt: LOVE the cartoon rabbits in #3 lol so cute!
-jamless: All I saw was Taeyeon and I was like, "Love this article already."
Splashhhh: Looove this article so true
Edie: Where is the gif in #14 from ?
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