7 Helpful Hints for Girls Struggling to Be a Girly Girl ...

Being a girly girl is a challenge many women face, especially in the hustle and bustle of 2024, where fashion evolves faster than you can say ‘bubblegum pink’. But, worry not, for embracing your inner girly girl can be a fun, colorful journey. Think Blake Lively, not clueless; think Audrey Hepburn's elegance, not a tutorial in hot mess express. I've danced this frilly dance myself, so I’ve got personal insights to share. Trust me, I’ve nailed the perfect blend of chic and comfort to avoid looking like I raided a candy store!

First off, let's talk fashion! Trying to find that quintessentially girly girl style can feel like navigating through a fashion minefield. You’ve got your fashion do's and don'ts, and sometimes it’s as confusing as calculus. But that's the beauty of fashion – there's always room to add some flair with adorable accessories and flourish your own personal touches.

Next, on the journey of becoming a girly girl, makeup is your sidekick, not your enemy. Yes, it can be intimidating with a capital 'I'. There's an art to getting those winged eyeliners just right without looking like you had a fight with a Sharpie. But don't worry, it’s one of those skills that we’ll tackle together with a heap of patience and lots of YouTube tutorials because, hey, makeup mishaps happen to the best of us!

Let’s not forget about politeness – embodying a girly girl isn’t just about how you look, but also how you act. Practicing politeness and empathy can totally boost that girly vibe you're going for. Positive gestures like complimenting someone's fabulous shoes (which, let's face it, should be a sport) or sending a thank-you note add a touch of sparkle to your charm.

The way to a girly girl’s heart is through her maze of skirts and dresses. Embracing bright colors, floral patterns, and stylish details will have you twirling in no time. Skirts? They aren’t solely for the Elizabeth Bennet types amongst us – they’re for anyone willing to embrace their feminine side with grace and petticoats!

And hey, while we're on the subject of skirts and fabrics, understanding the right fit and comfort matters too. If you're as prone to wardrobe malfunctions as me (think, tripping over your maxi dress), then the importance of balancing style with practicality is something you and I can definitely bond over.

Finally, remember that being a girly girl is not about conforming to a cookie-cutter image but celebrating your unique style with a fabulous infusion of femininity. Whether it's through playful accessories, mastering the art of chic hairstyles, or just being that sparkle in a world of simplicity, the journey to girliness can indeed be your own fashion fairytale.

Ready to dive deeper? Grab your glitter and let's get started on these 7 helpful hints for transforming into the girly girl you’ve always wanted to be!

1 Keep up with Current Fashion

You don’t have to wear designer clothes or attend Fashion Week, but it can’t hurt to keep up with current trends. Check out fashion magazines and fashion bloggers online to stay informed about the latest trends. You don’t have to spend a lot of money either. You can always pick clothes on sale. It can’t hurt to add a pretty dress or skirt to update your wardrobe. You don’t need to dress like a runway model, but it would be nice to up your game and dress a bit more feminine.

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2 Accessorize

Girly girls love their accessories. A cute pair of heels, a hat, a purse, some lovely earrings, a bracelet or necklace. A fun feminine accessory can really spice up an outfit and will make you feel more feminine. Treat yourself to that nice purse that you’ve been eyeing for weeks. Throw on some hoop earrings and pull those kitten heels out of your closet. A little bit can go a long way when it comes to accessories!

3 Experiment with Makeup & Hairstyles

One of the best things about being a woman is the ability to experiment with different hairstyles and makeup. There is a huge variety out there today, from funky colors to daring haircuts to fancy makeup styles. There are plenty of tutorial videos available online for both hair and makeup ideas, so go to town and have a blast playing around with different looks. Embrace the playful young girl inside you and try that bold new look!

4 Don’t Forget the Fragrance

Traditionally, there are fragrances that are considered masculine or feminine. Specifically, musky scents are more masculine, while floral and fruity scents are more feminine. Stay away from heavy musky scents and go for those that are more girly. And don’t wear anything that’s too overpowering. Spritz just a little behind your ears or on your wrists.

5 Think like a Girl

If you really have trouble getting into the right mindset, read some “chick lit,” or watch some “chick flick.” Read some magazines that are issued for women. Also, don’t be afraid to express your emotions. That is, don’t be overly sappy, but don’t be cold either. Girly ladies are a bit more open with their feelings. Smile and laugh more and bat your eyelashes sometimes. If you act the part, it will soon be your second nature!

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The key to being a girly girl is to think like one. To do this, try reading books and magazines that are specifically geared towards women, and watch movies that focus on the female experience. Don't be afraid to express your emotions, as girly ladies are more open with their feelings. Additionally, try smiling and laughing more, and even bat your eyelashes. Acting the part will soon become second nature, and you'll be feeling more like a girly girl in no time!

6 Be Confident

Be confident, but not cocky. Girly ladies are also easy going. Have some faith in yourself and carry yourself with some attitude. Embrace the girly lady inside you and let her shine through.

7 Remember Your Manners

Always be polite and courteous. Say please and thank you and make eye contact. Let a man hold open a door for you or hold your bags. Just because you are a strong independent woman doesn’t mean chivalry is dead!