Meeting new people is never easy, but with a few compliments to give people you meet for the first time, it can be a breeze to break the ice. Keep in mind that you always want to be genuine when complimenting others. Don’t just say something if you don’t mean it, but if you find something you could compliment someone on that you genuinely admire about them, then tell them! It can be as simple as the type of shoes they have on, to the way they’re wearing their hair. Either way, compliments break the ice and create an easier avenue for talking to someone. Some of these are better for women than men, and a couple are even useful for job interviews, but each one can be condition specific, so pick the most appropriate one.
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1. I Love Your Outfit
Ladies, one of the best compliments to give people you meet for the first time is a sense of appreciation for their outfit. Who doesn’t love to be complimented on what they’re wearing? If this is a man, you may want to keep it simple and say something like, “Nice shirt”, but if it is a woman, feel free to gush over her blouse, dress, gym tank, etc. This will break down barriers, and make her feel good too. If you’re lucky, she might even tell you where she got it!
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Compliments are a great way to break the ice and make a good first impression. Not only do compliments make the recipient feel good, but giving compliments can also make the giver feel good. Women, in particular, often appreciate compliments about their outfit.
Women’s fashion is constantly changing, and it can be hard to keep up with the latest trends. When you meet someone for the first time, it’s always nice to show appreciation for their style. A simple compliment such as “I love your outfit” can go a long way. Not only will it make the person feel good, but it could even spark a conversation about where they got their outfit or what their fashion style is.
Complimenting someone’s outfit is a great way to make a good first impression. It’s a great way to show that you appreciate someone’s style and that you are interested in getting to know them. Women, in particular, often appreciate compliments about their outfit, so make sure to give compliments when you meet someone for the first time. It could be as simple as saying “I love your outfit” or “That dress looks great on you.”
2. That Jewelry is so Cute!
Along with clothing, all women love to be complimented on their jewelry. Feel free to express your love for a gal's jewelry, or if it’s a guy, say something like, “Nice watch,” etc. If you’re in a job interview, keep it brief and not too over the top, and say something like, “ I really like your jewelry.”
Frequently asked questions
Oh, there are so many great ones! Try something like 'You have a fantastic smile' or 'I love your energy!' These are simple yet thoughtful compliments that can make a great first impression.
It’s pretty easy! You could say something like 'You have a great sense of style' or 'Your laughter is contagious.' Just keep it genuine and respectful.
Sometimes, just acknowledging something unique about them works wonders. Try, 'You seem really interesting; I'd love to hear more about your experiences,' or 'You have such a positive vibe!'
Great question! Avoid comments that could be taken the wrong way or are too personal, like remarks about their body or very specific details about their appearance. Stick to general things like their smile, style, or attitude.
Not if you're genuine! Be honest and specific with your compliments. Instead of something generic, point out something you truly like about them. People can tell when you're being sincere!
3. Your Hair Looks Nice like That
This is a great tip to give women or men, and an easy one too. Everyone likes to feel like their hair looks nice, and having someone tell you that is a great compliment to receive, so return the favor.
4. You Have a Great Smile
Does someone you meet have pretty pearly whites, or a welcoming smile? Tell them so! A smile is the prettiest thing any of us will wear, and when someone appreciates it, it’s even better.
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A genuine smile can make a significant first impression, whether it's due to its radiance or the warmth it conveys. Consider noting the uniqueness of someone's smile – perhaps it's the way their eyes light up or the sense of sincerity that comes with it. "Your smile just made my day a bit brighter!" is a lovely way to make someone feel special. After all, a simple compliment on a smile can go a long way in boosting one's confidence and fostering a positive connection.
5. Your Accent is Nice
If you meet someone out of town, or who is from a different culture, state, area, etc. and you like their accent, let them know. This is one compliment that is always nice to receive. As a southerner, trust me, I know.
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Noticing the unique melody in someone's voice shows you're attentive and appreciative of diversity. It's a charming ice-breaker and often becomes an interesting conversation starter about their heritage or experiences. Just remember to be genuine in your admiration, as it can really brighten their day. Every accent carries its own story and acknowledging it with a compliment can make someone feel special and connected.
6. I’ve Heard so Many Great Things about You
If you’re not sure what to say about someone you meet, or are finding it hard to start a conversation, just keep it simple with this baseline compliment. Telling someone you’ve heard nice things about them through a friend, family member or co-worker is a great way to break the ice. If you haven’t heard of them at all, then definitely don’t say this and instead, keep say something like, “I’ve been looking forward to meeting you."
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It warms the heart to know that your reputation precedes you in the most delightful way. Just make sure to convey your excitement authentically! Perhaps mention a specific trait or accomplishment you've heard about, which can lead to a meaningful conversation. It's all about making connections and showing genuine interest in the person you're engaging with. Remember, the beginning of a conversation can set the tone for a wonderful and lasting impression.
7. Your Nail Polish is Nice
If the bank teller or lady interviewing you for your next job has a great color of nail polish, tell her! This is not an over the top compliment that will make you sound weird, just one that will let someone know you appreciate her sense of taste in nail polish. No harm in that, right?
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Offering a sincere compliment on someone's choice of nail polish communicates that you notice and admire the small details. It's a lovely icebreaker that exudes warmth and can spark a light-hearted conversation about beauty favorites or the latest trends. Choosing to comment on something like nail polish shows an eye for aesthetics, and sharing that with someone can brighten their day. Everyone likes to feel that their efforts in self-presentation are recognized, and this charming gesture does just that without crossing any lines into uncomfortable territory.
8. You Have Great Style
If you like the way someone dresses and accessorizes, a great way to say this is simply, "I love your style.” It makes a simple, yet very welcomed compliment anyone will receive well.
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Fashion is a personal form of expression, and when you admire someone's unique look, it can create an instant connection. Say something like, "Your outfit really brings out your personality," or "The way you coordinate your colors and accessories is fantastic." These remarks acknowledge the creativity and thought someone has put into their appearance. A compliment on style can be deeply meaningful because it not only values their aesthetic choices but also shows that you see them as an individual. And who doesn't appreciate a bit of recognition for their sartorial efforts?
9. You’re so Polite
Another simple compliment to give someone is just to tell them how nice they are. It doesn’t have to be something on the exterior your compliment them with. Perhaps they have great manners, or are just friendly. Tell them so!
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Recognizing someone's inner qualities can be just as impactful as complimenting their appearance. When you notice that someone carries themselves with genuine kindness and consideration for others, don't hesitate to acknowledge it. It could be the way they listen attentively or how they put extra thought into their words before speaking. An acknowledgment like, "I really appreciate the way you handle conversations with such respect," not only highlights their politeness but also makes them feel seen for their character, which is often a deeper and more meaningful compliment.
10. This is a Great Meal
Going over to someone’s house for dinner? Tell them they gave you a great meal. All cooks and people hosting an event like to hear this, and it’s an easy compliment to give to someone in exchange for a great meal.
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Complimenting the chef or host not only acknowledges their effort and skill, but also creates a warm and appreciative atmosphere. Be specific if you can – for instance, highlight the tenderness of the roast or the unique blend of flavors in the dessert. Saying something like, “I absolutely loved the herb crust on the pork – it was so flavorful! Have you been cooking for long?” This kind of genuine interest fosters connection and shows gratitude in a personal way.
11. You’re a Great Cook
This is the perfect compliment for your boyfriend’s or husband’s mom or sister! If you’re eating a meal prepared on behalf of someone else who did a great job, tell them how great of a cook they are. Maybe you’ll get a second invite!
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Praising their culinary skills is not only warm and personal, it can also open up a dialogue about recipes, cooking tips, or family traditions. Who knows? You might just find yourself swapping kitchen secrets or being treated to an impromptu cooking lesson. Remember, everyone loves a guest who appreciates their effort, and sincere compliments on someone's cooking are sure to make a memorable impression and might even score you another delicious meal in the future.
12. Those Flowers Are Nice on Your Desk
I always admire other people’s flowers whenever I go into someone’s office or home, especially if they’re really nice. This is an easy compliment to give someone that isn’t directed at them, but that will be received well. It can also be a less personal compliment to use, which is better for situations like job interviews where you don’t want to come over as over the top or fake.
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Commenting on someone's desk adornments is a subtle yet thoughtful way to break the ice and show appreciation for their aesthetic choices. It suggests you notice the small details and can evoke a sense of pride in their personal space. Furthermore, flowers often carry a sense of freshness and vibrancy; acknowledging them can create a positive atmosphere. Such an observation can segue into a conversation about favorite flowers or gardening, which can be a lovely way to find common ground with someone you've just met.
13. You Have Great Taste in Sports
If you’re going into a man’s house or office and you’re not sure what to say, but you notice he has some sports memorabilia on his walls, desk, etc. that you like, tell him you like his taste in sports. Men will love this compliment, and it’s fairly casual. Just be sure you mean it when you say it, because he’ll likely ask you who your favorite player is, so you better know the answer!
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Praising someone's collection or favorite team can spark an engaging conversation and show you have a shared interest. It's a fantastic icebreaker that feels personal yet remains on neutral ground. If the discussion leads to stories about previous games or passionate debates about players, you'll find yourself in the heart of a delightful and easy-going chat. Just make sure you're sincere - sports fans can spot a feigned interest from a mile away, so a little genuine enthusiasm goes a long way!
14. You Have Great Taste in Books
I love finding out what other people read. If it’s something I like, I tell them so! Next time you see a book laying out that someone has, or they speak of one they recently read that sounds interesting to you, tell them. They might even let you borrow it.
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Sharing an interest in books can be a wonderful icebreaker and a perfect compliment. Mentioning "That book sounds fascinating, you obviously have an eye for intriguing reads!" can spark an engaging conversation. They may share insights from the book, and it can lead to a deeper discussion on common interests. This not only flatters their choice but also shows your open-mindedness and willingness to explore new ideas. Plus, it's a subtle nod to their intellect and tastes, which is always a charming touch.
15. I Love Your Car
Lastly, though superficial as it may be, everyone who has a nice car likes to hear it. If you like someone’s car, give them the high road for a moment and tell them. It’s an easy, indirect compliment that starts a conversation and makes them feel more at ease.
Complimenting others is a great way to start a conversation and to get to know someone. It can also be the easy start of meeting a new friend. Do you have a favorite compliment you like to give people?
Comments
Shannon: Takes so little energy to be kind (:
leyla: I'm from Russia and I have accent, when people tell me you have nice accent i like it, i don't find that unappropriate.
Katya: I think the accent compliment is not appropriate, u can simply offend a person.
Vikki: I'm from the UK and there are so many accents here, nobody has been offended by me saying they have a lovely accent but rather like the fact they can tell me about themselves. One thing though... I think using the word "nice" is a bit bland and there are better words to use
Rose: One of my best friends jut moved from South Africa a month ago, the first thing I said to her was "Oh my good golly gosh you have the coolest accent ever"!
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