These Are the Perfect Comebacks to Backhanded Compliments ...

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She may be young in years, but 19-year-old Vanessa Papastavros already knows the agony of being "paid" a backhanded, sexist compliment. So she's drawn the perfect responses to the passive-aggressive body-shaming anti-compliments we've all heard — and they're awesome. Here's a sampling.

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4. "still" Single

"still" Single

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Whether you're navigating the single scene with grace or sometimes fumble through the dating game, you've likely encountered the old, "You're too pretty to be single" line. When faced with this veiled insult, arm yourself with a clever retort such as, "Thanks, I'm holding out for someone who recognizes I'm more than just a pretty face," or "I appreciate that! I'm single by choice, enjoying the opportunity to find someone truly worthy." Flaunt your independence and confidence; your relationship status is your power, not a plea for patronizing remarks.

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6. No Wife for You!

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Snarky retorts are essential when someone hits you with that old line, "You're such a great person, it's hard to believe you're not married yet." Raising an eyebrow and replying with, "Well, I'm more concerned with being happy than just being someone's wife," can serve as a gutsy comeback. It turns the table on the underlying assumption that marriage is the ultimate goal for everyone. Sometimes, the best defense is an offense that champions your own values and choices, leaving no room for anyone to question them again.

7. I Knew!

I Knew!

8. Make-up Madness

Make-up Madness

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The audacity to comment on your bold choice of eyeshadow can be enough to make your mascara run – but not today, honey! When they hit you with a "Wow, that's a lot of makeup for a casual day," you can dab that highlighter with pride and retort with, "Thanks! I’m really enjoying expressing myself, it’s like my face is my own personal canvas." Let your lips shine with that extra glitter gloss and remember, makeup is your armor, and every brush stroke is a battle won.

9. Photo-Ready

Photo-Ready

10. What?!

What?!

11. Blond?

Blond?

12. Butt out!

Butt out!

13. A Weighty Issue

A Weighty Issue

14. I See

I See

15. Courage?

Courage?

16. Hair

Hair

17. Classy!

Classy!

18. Sisters!

Sisters!

19. Lookin' Good!

Lookin' Good!

20. A Meal? What?

A Meal? What?

21. STFU

STFU

22. Make-up?

Make-up?

23. Flattery

Flattery

24. I Hate This One...

I Hate This One...

25. Boobs

Boobs

26. My Face!

My Face!

27. Asian...

Asian...

28. Pretty Face

Pretty Face And a few extra bonus panels, just in case...

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This image is of a young woman with a confident, beautiful expression on her face. The accompanying caption is a reminder that we should all have a few comebacks ready for backhanded compliments. It's important to remember that we are not obligated to take criticism from others, and we should never be afraid to stand up for ourselves. This image is a great reminder to all women that they are strong, capable, and beautiful, and they should never let anyone make them feel otherwise.

29. In Case You Didn't Know...

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30. To All the Haters

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31. Works in Every Scenario, Actually...

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32. Actually... Nope!

Actually... Nope!

33. You Should!

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The comebacks are really lame, but it's nice to see all the different issues women go through mentioned here.

These are not good comebacks. Most of them sound like a ten year old!

Lame.

Very interesting post

Just a couple were good.

She's a cool artist but I didn't appreciate the lame, unfunny 'comebacks' Juvenile and boring.

Horrible article. No where can anyone find something positive about how everyone is unique by the negative messages presented.

Well, I thought it was interesting. I liked the pictures and am glad to know that I'm not the only person who's gotten those "compliments". The people who say them usually don't mean any harm but they can still get to you.

Maybe you need to do some better articles. The thigh gap one was just as stupid as this article. Pointless

most of these have terrible comebacks-the ones that dont dont make any sense

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