There are times in our lives when we need ways to let go of regret. Any day you can wake up, open your laptop, swipe for quotes that will be sort of shout out how to find harmony, how not to let noise intrude upon your being or humiliate your existence. But, nothing similar will come to help you if you don’t know how to be because of the feeling of regret. It’s a monster that can turn your days into hours you can’t live through, a monster that can transform yourself into something you can’t bear the sight of. So, I do hope that these ways to let go of regret steps I’m going to give below will be kind of motivation for all of you who are familiar with that feeling.
1. Once You’ve Done Something do Not Give Much Thought to the Idea How It Turned out to Be for Others, Put Yourself Prior to Everybody
No, I don’t mean you have the right to affect other people with your behavior but if your action was meant to be directed to something good from which you could benefit, but unfortunately it didn’t, don’t struggle and torture yourself because of the feeling that others might have suffered: you were the first one to suffer, weren’t you?
2. Would You do It Again if You Were Taken Back in Time?
Yes? Then do not dare to regret it just because of the unwanted result. Would you avoid doing it if you were taken back in time? Yes? Then prepare yourself for another and a better try instead of stopping and acting your drama of regret.
3. You’re in a Position That You Can’t Overcome the Feeling of Regret However Hard You Try...
Then find somebody to regret together. Imagine you’re recalling some awful things and the “deeds” that seem horrible to you may just be fun for the one you’re sharing them with.
I prefer the last one! good luck!