I always try to give useful advice to others, so I hope that you will find very helpful this article, since I will give you a few tips on how to never give up, no matter what. You all know that, every time you’re chasing a big dream, you'll always have to face a lot of obstacles, and sometimes, these obstacles tend to discourage you and because of all the effort that you put into them, you may even feel extremely exhausted. I’ve learned that you mustn’t under any circumstances let these obstacles get you down and, that there are ways, very simple ways to help you reach your goals without too much stress. Sometimes it is absolutely normal to lose your optimism and your enthusiasm even from the early beginning, if you don’t put the necessary effort to stay motivated. But, it’s not so hard to succeed that. You will see it from the tips on how to never give up that I am pleased to share with you.
1. Be Passionate about What You Are Doing!
One of the easiest and one of the most important tips I could give you on how to never give up, is to remind you to always be passionate about everything you want to do and this way, it will be much easier for you to be successful in what you wish to accomplish. If you put a lot of passion in all the things you do, this will come back to you and your efforts will be rewarded by reaching your goals. You will even be able to move mountains! Remember that overcoming some important obstacles is part of your daily schedule if you really love what you’re doing. If you never give up, you will always be able to come back again and again until your dream will come true.
2. Failure is Not a Permanent Thing
Whenever you’re facing a big failure in your work, or in your life, you should always remember that the best remedy for a failure is going further, realizing that the failure is not something permanent and that it happens to everyone. The best thing for you to do in such a situation is immediately concentrate on the most appropriate decisions you’ll have to take in order for everything to be just fine and the way you want it to be. If you act, and especially think in such a manner, finally you will find the right solution to your problem, because your mind will be stress-free, it will be able to focus much better and to find the answer to your question. Believing that a negative situation is something temporary will motivate you into trying new problem solving strategies and you never know when you’ll finally succeed.
3. Separate Yourself from the People That Are Constantly Complaining
I’m sure that you often hear people talk about how lucky some of their friends are, like they would like to suggest you how unlucky they really are by comparison to others. I believe that people who constantly complain that they’re out of luck and that everybody else is doing so much better than them, tend to do this all day long. I also think that because of their lack of motivation, they tend not work hard enough to accomplish their objectives. As superficial as it may sound, I believe that luck is something you do yourself, by working really hard and by following your dreams no matter what. You should avoid all the whiners and stay focused on what you are after. You will also feel much happier because you won’t need to listen to all their complaints.
4. Never Let Fear Stop You from Doing Anything!
For me, courage means never giving up, means not the absence of fear but being able to conquer it. Of course, it is much easier to give up when things start to go wrong or when they become too many to be handled properly, and this is exactly what people who often lose tend to do (losers seemed a word a bit too harsh). There are a lot of ordinary people who achieved amazing things by being perseverant and by never giving up. When you have to face a big challenge learn to take risks! If you make a few mistakes along the way, it’s okay, just think that this is the best way to learn something new. Simply, go forward! Never doubt the decisions you’ll have to take!
5. Don’t Take Yourself Too Seriously!
There isn’t any reason that should prevent you from having fun while working. Always try to spice up your workday by joking and laughing and you will see that your tasks will become much easier, you will be more motivated, you will find more numerous ways to solve all your problems and your day will be more pleasant. I’m pretty sure that your co-workers will appreciate this too, since everyone works much better in a friendly atmosphere.
6. Learn to Be Patient
In life, there are a lot of things, that in order to fulfill them, you should be prepared to wait for a very, very long time to see some results. First of all, you should always be aware of the fact that great things take time and that you can’t obtain them easily, and second, the moment you succeed in doing something important, you will feel extremely accomplished; a feeling than nobody could take it away from you. Remember that there are a lot of things that require a great amount of time in order for them to happen the way you desire. You should always be patient, whenever you start doing a certain thing, especially if this is an important thing for you, and you should always be prepared to wait in order to see some results. Keep working, keep waiting, and, of course, never give up!
7. Think like a Winner!
A lot of people say that positive thinking can truly change the word. In fact, by thinking positively you can easily obtain a lot of amazing accomplishments on all kinds of day-by-day tasks. You should apply this whenever you’re facing a big challenge, especially the times when you feel down and when you are tempted to give up. Learn how to think like a winner! By doing this, you will be able to visualize the feelings you’ll experience when you’ll reach your goal, and this thing will motivate you even more and you will be able to focus much better in the right way in order to obtain the expected results.
8. You Should Always Trust Your Abilities
I’m pretty sure you all know that, if you aren’t the one who trusts you to be capable in being successful, no one else will. It’s absolutely normal that from time to time, when facing a failure to doubt yourself and your abilities, but you should always remember that this is just something temporary, that you’ll feel better again and that you only had a little set back, that you’ll overcome in no time. Just don’t give up and you will see how many good things will happen to you!
9. Just Persevere!
You will be surprised how sometimes; stubbornness can be one of the important things that may help you succeed. Just don’t give up, no matter what the circumstances are, no matter how many failures you’ve faced, if you really believe in something that is extremely important to you, you should always follow your dream. You if are a bit shy, just learn to be a bit more stubborn and don’t let others influence you. A good result always requires a lot of hard work and sometimes, a lot of rejections. But, if you’ll persevere, be sure that you’ll always succeed.
I hope that you’ll find useful the tips I gave you, and remember to never give up on your dreams and on your happiness! What other ways to motivate yourself do you use if sometimes you’re feeling a bit down or if you’re facing a failure? What other advice on how to never give up can you offer us? Please, share!