We have agency over our own lives. We can make our own decisions. We can decide whether to wear this shirt, or that pair of pants, or to eat at this restaurant, or to follow this dream. If you feel almost constantly shaken in your convictions, it’s because you’re confident in who you are. You are powerful and can make good decision. Don’t allow someone to tell you they know what is best for you just because you feel shy or unsure. Advice is always helpful, but you know what’s best for you.