Have you ever spent time with someone great and come away just thinking “wow, they are awesome!”? Being ‘awesome’ is a quality in a person that instantly draws others to them: they tend to be fun, charismatic, and just great to spend time with. If you want to have that same effect on people, then there are definitely some things that you can do. Awesomeness can be something that people are born with, but more importantly it can also be learned! Here are ten top tips on how to be awesome!
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Be Yourself
Just live the most authentic and truthful life that you possibly can. You are never going to exude that awesome energy if you spend most of your time pretending to be someone that you are not.
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Be Kind
Always treat those around you in a kind and pleasant manner, and you will find that the energy you receive back from them helps to cultivate an awesome personality. Those who treat others with kindness are always the most fondly regarded.
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Current Events
Make the effort to stay on top of all the important current events both in your personal life and in the wider world. The more educated and present you come across to your peers, the more awesome you seem.
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Be Seen
Go out of your way to attend lots of social occasions so that you end up being seen a lot. The more people see you out and about and having fun, the more mystique and buzz you will create around yourself.
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Dress the Part
Don’t be a wallflower in terms of your dress sense! If you want to be seen as awesome, then you have to dress the part! Make sure to wear things that are bang on trend, but at the same time, only trends that truly suit you.
When it comes to fashion, the key to being awesome is to find the right balance between wearing what’s on trend and wearing what looks best on you. It’s all too easy to get caught up in the latest trends and end up looking like you’re trying too hard. Instead, focus on finding pieces that flatter your figure and make you feel confident.
The best way to do this is to pay attention to the details. Invest in quality pieces that will last, and look for items with interesting details like interesting cuts, prints, or textures. Stick to a color palette that works for you, and make sure to accessorize. A great bag or pair of shoes can instantly elevate any look.
When it comes to shopping, it’s important to think about the environment. Look for pieces made from sustainable materials, and try to buy from brands that are committed to ethical labor practices. If you can, buy secondhand or vintage clothing, as this is a great way to find unique and one-of-a-kind pieces.
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Meaning is not what you start with but what you end up with.
Be Confident
Never underestimate how much acting the part can transform in to being the part! Approach everything that you do with strong confidence and you will find that people naturally gravitate towards you as some sort of awesome leader.
Confidence is one of the most important traits to have when striving to be awesome. Being confident doesn’t mean you have to be fearless, or that you won’t ever feel scared or anxious. It means that despite feeling scared or anxious, you still have the courage to take action. Being confident in yourself and your abilities gives you the strength to take risks and try new things.
Confidence also helps you to be more assertive and to take control of your life. It gives you the courage to speak up about things that matter to you and to stand up for yourself. It also helps you to be more resilient when faced with failure or criticism, and to use these experiences as learning opportunities.
Confidence is also important for building relationships. When you’re confident, you’re more likely to make meaningful connections with other people. It’s easier to be friendly, to make conversation, and to make a good impression.
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Be Positive
Try to look for the silver lining in each cloud rather than being a voice of doom. Positivity is something that is becoming more and more precious in this world so make sure that you exude it often.
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Be Unique
Be a leader rather than a follower! Whenever there is a choice between following an old path of creating a new one, always make the decision to make a new one!
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Be Honest
People can always tell when they are being lied to, so if you want to come across as awesome, then you can’t afford to be seen as dishonest. Stick to being truthful and you will have much more success.
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Be Respectful
Live by the age-old advice of treating people in exactly the same way that you would like to be treated. It’s not rocket science!
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