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Unless you have a very special guardian angel or live a charmed life, curve balls are going to come your way.

They have the potential to derail your goals, upset your life balance and generally foul things up for you.

But if you have the strength to tackle them you can gain, big time.

It's a case of knowing how to deal when you can't dodge.

1. Acceptance

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One key way of how to deal with unexpected change in your life is to simply accept your new circumstances and avoid trying to completely ignore that a drastic event has taken place.

The longer you are in denial about a big life change, the longer it is going to take for you to become accustomed to the new reality.

Acceptance and agreement are two completely separate things;

just because you don’t like the change that has occurred, it doesn’t mean that you should completely ignore its existence.

2. Pros and Cons

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To help try to come to terms with a major life change, you might want to try sitting down and physically writing a pros and cons list related to whatever even may have taken place.

By being super pragmatic and taking emotion out of the equation, your pros and cons list might surprise you and help you to see the change from a more sensible and less emotionally charged perspective.

3. Focus on the Positives

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And following on from the pros and cons list that you should make, in order to best handle the change, you should try to focus purely on the positives aspects that this change in circumstances might bring to your life.

Somebody who only thinks about the negatives is never going to be able to fully accept the change, so make a conscious effort to embrace the optimistic side of your personality and be positive about your situation.

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